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How to handle your finances - continued

The second most common reason why so many people never master money is simply that they think it's too complex. They want an "expert  to handle it for them. While it's very valuable to get expert coaching we all must be trained to understand the consequences of our financial decisions. If you exclusively depend upon someone else, no matter how competent they are, you'll always have them to blame for what occurs. But if you take responsibility for understanding your finances, you can begin to direct your own destiny. We have the power to understand how our minds, bodies, and emotions work, and because of this, we have the capacity to exert a great deal of control over our destinies. Our financial world is no different. Once you understand the fundamentals, mastering money is a fairly simple matter. So the first task in taking control of your financial world is to utilize the NAC (Neuro-Associative Conditioning) technology to condition yourself to financi...

Take control of your financial l future...

Today we will learn about Finance  and the keys to building lasting wealth.  Wealth  today, has become a very critical aspect of our lives.Most of the tensions in life, relationship problems and self-esteem problems is because of  lack of wealth.  People don't see  who or what you are, they see  WHAT YOU HAVE.  We are often judged by our economic status.    We fail to remember that  "Money was made for Man, and not Man for Money".   True, wealth is important, but so also are human values. You may have all the wealth in the world but you may be too old to enjoy it, or you may have a  major illness which does not allow you to enjoy your wealth. Then what use is the wealth?  When we are young, our whole life goes by working hard in our jobs to  create wealth. Then after 30 or 40 years are over we find out that the wealth needs to be maintained so we work more hard to keep our wealth and we ...

Belief Systems

Two women turn seventy years old, yet each takes a different meaning from the event. One "knows" that her life is coming to an end. To her, seven decades of living mean that her body must be breaking down and she'd better start winding up her affairs.  The other woman decides  that what a person is capable of at any age depends upon her belief, and sets a higher standard for herself. She decides that mountain climbing might be a good sport to begin at the age of seventy. For the next twenty-five years she devotes herself  to this new adventure  in mastery, scaling some of the highest peaks in the world, until today, in her nineties. Hulda Crooks  has become the oldest woman to ascend Mount Fuji. You see, it's never the environment; it's never the events of our lives, but the meaning we attach to the events- how we interpret them - that shapes who we are today and who we'll become tomorrow.  Beliefs are what make the difference...

Belief Systems : The Power to Create and the Power to Destroy

"Under all that we think, lives all we believe, like the ultimate veil of our spirits." He was bitter and cruel, an alcoholic and drug addict who almost killed himself several times. Today he serves a life sentence in prison for the murder of a liquor store cashier who got in his way. He has two sons, born a mere eleven months apart, one of whom grew up to be "just like Dad" : a drug addict who lived by stealing and threatening others until he too, was put in jail for attempted murder. His brother, however, is a different story: a man who's raising three kids, enjoys his marriage, and appears to be truly happy. As regional manager for a major national concern, he finds his work both challenging and rewarding. He's physically fit, and has no alcohol or drug addictions! How could these two young men have turned out so differently, having grown up in virtually the same environment? Both were asked privately, unbeknownst to the other, ...

Pain and Pleasure - Conclusion

Let's make some changes right now : First write down four actions that you need to take that you've been putting off. Maybe you need to lose some weight. Maybe you need to stop smoking. Maybe you need to communicate with someone you've had a falling out with, or reconnect with someone who's important to you. Second, under each of these actions, write down the answer to the following questions: Why haven't I taken action? In the past, what pain have I linked to taking this action? Answering these questions will help you understand that what has held you back is that you've associated greater pain to taking the action than to not taking it. Be honest with yourself. If you're thinking, "I have no pain associated to it," think a little harder. Maybe the pain is simple: maybe it's the pain of taking time out of your busy schedule. Third, write down all the pleasure you've had in the past by indulging in this negative p...

Pain and Pleasure

Nature has placed mankind under the government of two sovereign masters, pain and pleasure.....they govern us in all we do, in all we say, and in all we think: Why do people persist in an unsatisfying relationship, unwilling either to work toward solutions or end it and move on? It's because they know changing will lead to the unknown, and most people believe that the unknown will be much more painful than what they're already experiencing. It's like the old proverbs say:  "Better the devil you know than the devil you don't know."  " A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush." These core beliefs keep us from taking the actions that could change our lives. If we want to have an intimate relationship, then we have to overcome our fears of rejection and vulnerability. If we're planning to go into business, we must be willing to overcome our fear of  losing security to  make that happen. In fact, most of the things that are v...

Pain and Pleasure - Beer and Drugs

Can our pain and pleasure linkages produce a processional effect in our lives? You bet. This negative neuro-association for beer affected many of my decisions in life. It influenced whom I hung out with at school. It determined how I learned to get pleasure. I didn't use alcohol. I used learning:  I used laughter:  I used sports. I also learned that it felt incredible to help other people, so  I became the one everybody came to with their problems, and solving their problems made both them and me feel good.  I also never used drugs because of a similar experience: when I was in the third or fourth grade, the police department came to my school and showed us some films about the consequences of getting involved in the drug scene. I watched as people shot up, passed out, spaced out, and leaped out of windows.  I associated drugs to ugliness and death, so I never tried them myself. My good fortune was that the police had helped me for...