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How to handle your finances - continued


The second most common reason why so many people never master money is simply that they think it's too complex. They want an "expert  to handle it for them. While it's very valuable to get expert coaching we all must be trained to understand the consequences of our financial decisions. If you exclusively depend upon someone else, no matter how competent they are, you'll always have them to blame for what occurs. But if you take responsibility for understanding your finances, you can begin to direct your own destiny.

We have the power to understand how our minds, bodies, and emotions work, and because of this, we have the capacity to exert a great deal of control over our destinies. Our financial world is no different. Once you understand the fundamentals, mastering money is a fairly simple matter. So the first task in taking control of your financial world is to utilize the NAC (Neuro-Associative Conditioning) technology to condition yourself to financial success. Become clearly associated with all the great things you could do for your family and the peace of mind you'd feel if you had true economic abundance.

The third major belief that keeps people from succeeding financially and creates tremendous stress is the concept of scarcity. Most people believe they live in a world where everything is limited: there's only so much available land, so much oil, so many quality homes, so many opportunities, so much time. With this philosophy of life, in order for you to win, somebody else has to lose. ..If you believe this, the only way to become financially successful is to follow the approach of the robber barons of the early 1900s and corner the market on a particular product so that you get 95 percent of something while everyone else has to split the remaining 5 percent.

The truth of the matter however is that cornering a scarce supply no longer guarantees lasting wealth. The economist Paul Pilzer, a Wharton Business School graduate who has become quite famous for his economic theory of alchemy says that we live in a resource-rich environment. Paul points out that the traditional idea of obtaining scarce physical resources is no longer the primary arbiter of wealth. Today, technology determines the value of a physical resource and how large a supply of it actually exists.

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