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4. You routinely accuse your partner of being the selfish one in the relationship.   “We can hardly tolerate qualities in others that we don’t like about ourselves. Often what we mean when we accuse partners of being selfish is that they’re not meeting our selfish preferences.” ― Steven Stosny , psychologist 5. You get pissy when your partner makes  plans that don’t involve you.  “There is no reason to be joined at the hip. It is healthy to have your own interests and balance ‘me’ time with ‘we’ time. If you are always making your partner feel guilty for being an individual separate from you, then this is very selfish.” ―  Feuerman  6. You’re overly critical of your partner’s friends and family.  “Occasionally I see couples where one partner refuses to hang out with the other partner’s friends, or belittles them, looks down on them or is otherwise unpleasant toward these friends. This creates a troubling imbalance in the relat...

If this sounds familiar, there’s a good chance you haven’t realized that you’ve been unfair to your partner. Below, experts share the signs that indicate you’re probably the selfish one in your relationship.  Take a break from thinking about yourself for a second and ponder this: Do you ever ask what your partner wants to do over the weekend? Or do you just call all the shots without any regard for their wishes? When you two disagree on something, do you actually listen to what your partner has to say or do you steamroll the conversation? If this sounds familiar, there’s a good chance you haven’t realized that you’ve been unfair to your partner. Below, experts share the signs that indicate you’re probably the selfish one in your relationship.  1. You expect your partner   to  listen to you vent but you don’t offer the same in return. “One of the best reasons to be in an intimate relationship is that we have someone to tell our troubles to, who will tak...

4. Start placing a higher value on your time.  Time is more valuable than money. You can always get more money, but you can never get more time. It is possible to become twice as valuable, and make twice as much money in the same amount of time. There is nothing more valuable than time invested wisely. We all have the same 24 hours, and it’s what you do with them that determines everything. 5. It’s Ok to say no.  Steve Jobs once said, “It’s what Apple said “no” to that ultimately made them successful.” If you’re over-extending yourself and committing to too many things, this word will change your life. Say "no'' to everything that doesn't create income for you until you get your income to a place you feel confident and secure. Make a commitment to yourself that you will focus on income-producing activities versus tension-relieving activities.  6. Proximity is power.  Most broke people hang with other broke people and they usually stay broke, t...

8 Steps You Can Take Starting Today to Dramatically Increase Your Income Z ig Ziglar said “Money isn’t everything , but it’s right up there with oxygen.” The topic of wealth, income, and making money is often discussed and viewed in a negative light. Our society is afraid of being labeled as greedy or money hungry, but what must be understood is that money is a crucial part of freedom.  I personally know what it’s like to have nothing, to stress about paying my next bill, and to feel hopeless. I also know what it’s like to thrive, and I’ve been fortunate enough to create some great income as well. Having money is a lot more enjoyable and fulfilling, but most importantly it gives you options. Related:  8 Reasons Why 'More Money' Must Become Your Mantra Have you ever heard anybody say any of these? “Money is the root of all evil.” “Rich people are greedy.” “Money won’t make you happy.” “You don’t want to be one of those people.” “I don’t need money.” It...

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We all want to be loved. As obvious as that may be, many single Christians feel guilty about wanting to be loved. Somewhere they got the idea that this desire is selfish. We should  give  love and not expect to receive it, they think. They believe the ideal Christian is constantly doing good and being compassionate toward others, looking for nothing in return. That may sound noble, but the truth is that God created us with the natural desires to love and to  be  loved. Many of us don't feel very lovable. A 56-year-old single person had trouble with that for years. Over time, however, God showed  him that if he was worthy of God's   love, He's worthy of the love of other human beings too. But that can be a big step to take. We want to be humble. It can seem arrogant for a single Christian to say, "I'm a lovable person. I'm worthwhile and deserve to have someone care deeply about me." Achieving a Hea...