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Life Values : Your Personal Compass ...

"Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside of them was superior to circumstance."- Bruce Barton

Values guide our every decision, and, therefore our destiny. Those who know their values and live by them become leaders of our society.

If we want the deepest level of life fulfillment,we can achieve it in only one way, and that is by deciding upon what we value most in life, what our highest values are and then committing to live by them every single day.Unfortunately, this action is far to rare in today's society. Too often, people have no clear idea of what's important to them. They waffle on any issue; the world is a mass of gray to them; they never take a stand for anything or anyone. 

If you and I are not clear about what's most important in our lives - what we truly stand for - then how can we ever expect to lay the foundation for a sense of self-esteem, much less have the capacity to make effective decisions? If you've ever found yourself in a situation where you had a tough time making a decision about something, the reason is that you weren't clear about what you value most within that situation. We must remember that all decision making comes down to values clarification.

Recently, Escalante left the Los Angeles school system that he'd been working in to move to northern California. Why? He could no longer be a part of an organization where he believed there were no standards for a teacher's  performance.

Who are the most universally admired and respected people in our culture? Aren't they those who have a solid grasp of their own values, people who not only profess their standards, but live by them? We all respect people who take a stand for what they believe, even if we don't concur with their ideas about what's right and what's wrong.There is power in individuals who congruently lead lives where their philosophies and actions are one.

Most often we recognize this unique state of the human condition as an individual with integrity.


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