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Money! It's one of the most emotionally charged issues of our lives. Most people are willing to give up things that are much more valuable than money in order to get more of it. They'll push themselves far beyond their past limitations,give up time with their family and friends, or even destroy their health.

Money is a potent source associated to both pain and pleasure within our society. Too often it is used to measure the difference in the quality of lives, to magnify the separation of the haves and have-nots.

Some people tend to deal with money by pretending it doesn't matter, but financial pressure is something that affects us all every day of our lives.

For the elderly especially, a lack of money often translates into a lack of critical resources. For some people,money  holds mystery. For others, it is the source of desire, pride, envy, and even contempt. 

Which is it really? Is it the maker of dreams or the root of all evil? Is it a tool or a weapon? A source of freedom, power, security? Or merely a means to an end?




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