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Know that it's your decisions, and not your conditions, that determine your destiny.

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So what is the most important distinction to take from this chapter?

Know that it's your decisions, and not your conditions, that determine your destiny. 

Before we learn the technology for changing how you think and how you feel every day of your life, You should remember that in the final analysis, everything you've read in these articles  is worthless
.....unless you decide to use it.


Remember that a truly committed decision is the force that changes your life. It's a power available to you in any moment if you just decide to use it.

There are going to be challenges in your future. But as the people of Eastern Europe have learned, if you've decided to get past the walls, you can climb over them, you can break through them, you can tunnel under them, or you can find a door. No matter how long a wall has stood, none has the power to withstand the continued force of human beings who have decided to persist until it has fallen. 

The human spirit is truly unconquerable. But the will to win, the will to succeed, to shape one's life, to take control, can only be harnessed when you decide what you want, and believe that no challenge, no problem, no obstacle can keep you from it. 

When you decide that your life will be ultimately shaped not by conditions, but by your decisions, then, in that moment, your life will change forever........

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