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How to get Personal Achievement

We all have dreams,,,, We all want to believe deep down in our souls that we have a special gift, that we can make a difference, that we can touch others in a special way, and that we can make the world a better place. At one time in our lives, we all had a vision for the quality of  life that we desire and deserve. Yet, for many  of us, those dreams have become so shrouded in the  frustations and routines of daily life that we no longer even make an effort to accomplish them.  For far too many, the dream has dissipated      -  and with it, so has the will to shape our destinies. Many have lost that sense of certainty that creates the winner's edge.

At times when I feel lonely and lost, I reflect on my life and how it has been in the past. All the challenges I  faced,  financial struggles, working hard in my job without a break,  trying hard to achieve my dreams, all the sacrifices that were made to achieve my dream of buying a house,  of buying a car,  providing for the child's education, improvng the quality of  my life........ Working very very hard each day and finally achieving my dream, my goal.  The journey seems worth it. 

There are times when I feel  like just quitting, then I remember the saying 'Quitters never win,, and a Winner never Quits. ' And if YOU consider yourself a "WINNER"  then you will never quit......
I decided that I would not let the events of the world control me. I know that I am much more than what I am demonstrating mentally, emotionally, and physically in my life. I decided that I will never settle for less than I  could be......

I learned to harness the principal of 'concentration of power'   or  in other words 'Focus' all our  resources on mastering a single area of our lives.Controlled focus is like a laser beam that can cut through anything that   seems to be stopping you.One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus, we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in particular. I believe that one  of life's major lessons is learning to understand what makes us do what we do. What shapes human behaviour?The answers to this question provide  critical keys to shaping your own destiny.......

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