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How to Get Ahead in Life and Exit the “Rat Race”


Trait #4 – Conviction

I’ve talked about this trait in countless books that I’ve published including The Art of Persistenceand How Not to Give UpThis is such an important trait to embody that it really rests at the core of the successful person. Exiting the rat race, getting ahead in life, becoming financially free, or whatever you want to call it, is hard. In fact, it’s down right excruciatingly difficult. So, you have to be convicted to what you want in life. It has to be a passion that’s burning in your heart.
Without the trait of conviction, we can’t persist through all the perils that life throws at us. Without this trait, we would be jumping ship every chance we got, and that’s not the way to get ahead in life. By embodying conviction and finding your source of inspiration, you can see anything through. Nothing will be impossible for the convicted heart; absolutely nothing. Search deep down inside your heart and find something your passionate and convicted about, and the sky can only be the limit.

Trait #5 – Adaptability

One of the best traits for getting ahead in life is adaptability. This is adaptability towards whatever you do, whatever goal you strive towards, and whatever obstacles come in your way that seem to be impermeable. When you’re pushing towards a goal, you have to be able to change your approach, just like an airplane would that has a final set destination. The airplane doesn’t know the exact route down to the second, it has to adapt to changing conditions in order to arrive.
When you can adapt, you can not only survive, but you can also thrive. When it comes to a business environment, people that can’t adapt can’t thrive, and sometimes they can’t survive. You have to be able to adapt your approach towards whatever you’re doing in order to help you see your way there.





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