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As important as personal experience is, think how invaluable it is to have a role model as well - someone who's navigated the rapids before you and has a good map for you to follow. You can have a role model for your finances, a model for your relationships, a model for your health, a model for your profession, or a model for any aspect of your life you're learning to master. They can save you years of pain and keep you from going over the falls.

 There will be times when you're on the river solo and you'll have to make some important decisions on your own.

 The good news is that if you're willing to learn from your experiences, then even times you  think were difficult become great because they provide valuable information- key distinctions - that you will use to make better decisions in the future. In fact, any extremely successful person you meet will tell you - If they're honest with you - that the reason they're more successful is that they've made more poor decisions than you have . 

 People often ask, "How long do you think it will take for me to really master this particular skill?" And I ask them, "How long do you want it to take?" If you take action ten times a day ( and have proportionate "learning experiences")  while other people  act on a new skill  once a month, you'll have ten months   of experience in a day, you will soon master the skill, and will, ironically, probably be considered "talented and lucky."

 I tell you now, "Mastery takes as long as you want it to take".

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